After my mom plus dad retired, they decided to transport to Albuquerque, NM, and i was sad to see my mom plus dad transport so far away from home, however they were convinced that moving to Albuquerque was the right decision for them.
I actually could not argue with their decision… After all, they’re my parents… My dad died many years after my parents moved to Albuquerque plus my mom has been alone since then.
My sibling plus I flew to Albuquerque last year to visit, and every one of us were both surprised by the conditions the people I was with and I found at our moms condo… She had not cleaned the arena in at least a month! There were dirty dishes in the sink that had mold plus mildew. The AC wasn’t working either. It was about 85 degrees inside of the lake house when my sibling plus I visited plus it was all my Mother’s Day. My mom still had to deal with two more months of sizzling temperatures, and when my sibling plus I saw their conditions, the people I was with and I hastily realized that Mom could no longer stay in Albuquerque. My sibling plus I discussed everything plus decided that the people I was with and I would approach mom to see if she would transport back lake lake house to live with 1 of us. Even when the people I was with and I mentioned the broken AC component plus the dirty dishes in the sink. Mom refused to know that she could no longer take care of herself. She refused to leave with my sibling plus I plus told us that the people I was with and I need to mind our own supplier from now on. I’m not sure what to do next.